JEALOUS OF MY BESTIE
I AM RIGHTLY✅JEALOUS๐OF MY BESTIE ๐ฌ
You probably thought you would be reading about an envious, black sheep of a friend. I bet you will soon realize we are birds of a feather. If I am a black sheep, we are all sheep drenched in black.
So, normal norms level, Chris and I have everything in common; well, except this-
You know when nature decides to Zeh in one person's direction, it shouldn't be a surprise if all hell breaksfree. You know how you feel when you do a duet with your bestie and everyone is shouting Chris! Chris!! Chris!!! Up an dan.
The first time it happened, I was like whaa... wwwhaat?! Am I a ghost?
When it persisted, I decided I was never going to perform any song with Chris again. Some strange emotions- I asked myself for months why this feeling. I mean, I beat Chris at everything, I even sing better... well, so I thought.
It's a miracle Chris and I are still friends after I confronted him. Yes! I asked the guy makawhy? Why does he take all the glory at every performance? I wish I didn't sorosoke. I was so embarrassed to hear his response.
Chris said, "Yes, of course, who would not prefer my **** to yours."
Gosh! I have even mentioned his name a million times here, yet you don't know mine.
Yours, Saka.
QUESTIONS
- People preferred Chris' ______ over Saka's?
- What did Saka eventually become jealous of?
- Have you ever been jealous of your close friend/bestie? Mention one thing you were/are jealous of and let us know if it affected your friendship?
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ReplyDelete1. Voice
Delete2. He was jealous of the way Chris was always hyped
3. Yes, I've always been jealous of the goals and achievements my friends already have at such a young age sometimes makes me feel like I'm not doing enough but It's also my drive to be better, to do things in a different light, try new things n be better n it has always helped me, it has affected my betterment
Beautiful.
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1. Charisma
ReplyDelete2. Saka became jealous of Chris
3. Yes I've been and to be honest I still am. Why won't I be? I'm surrounded with friends who are goal getters and it makes me feel discouraged when it feel likes I'm not doing something to move forward. Looking on the bright side, I'm jealous of my friends because they do the things I'm too lazy to do and that makes me get my lazy a** up and work! Talk about inspiration.
Indeed I love my friends and wouldn't trade them for anything but, I'm also jealous of them.
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Delete1. VOICE
ReplyDelete2. CHRIS' VOICE
3. Yes o, I have. Whatever she lays her hand on prospers, sometimes she just have an idea and it is already working for her. I became jealous of her and it costed our friendship. Couldn't keep the friendship, I don't want the Jealousy to transform to hate. I still love her but I would rather run on my own pace
Hmmmm...wow!
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1.Name (four letter words).
ReplyDelete2. Fame, that is, the attention given to Chris or let me say the fact that even saka loves the Name Chris than hers or his.
3. Not exactly, I only wish I had some traits some of my friends have like being blunt Ohhh! ****** is blunt.
Hmmmm๐ค๐ค what/who is ******??
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*I think voice
ReplyDelete*Saka is jealous of Chris voice
*No, actually I just always feel challenged. These guys do crazy things and I respect them, they challenge me to do more
Wow! You've never been jealous of any of your friends?
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1) Cuteness
ReplyDelete2) He is jealous of his Cuteness (I guess)
3) Yes but I maximized his strength and started learning from him instead. The rate at which I've grown just by letting jealousy go still dey surprise me.
You are doing a great job dear, love this one.
Smart decision ๐
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Good afternoon TAWKers, answers to the first two questions will be posted in 3days.
ReplyDelete1. Persona
ReplyDelete2. Acceptance...
3. I think in a real senerio, I'd have advised saka to go for a little branding. Even the name puts me off.
Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, it's just like love, happiness, joy but could become toxic when it matures into Envy.
The truth is, you'll never be at the top of everything; someone will always outperform you, so, deal with it.
Another noteworthy trend is the effect of social media in our lives, I mean 20-27 year olds.
Trust me, you're winning, no one is posting their bad days, insecurities, failure, therefore, trust the process and trust yourself.
On a final note, build friends across all levels.
Friends you look up to,
Friends on the same tier with you and
Friend you elevate.
Peace.
I remain myself
Odedina_a.t
Very insightful.
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1. Chris' face
ReplyDelete2. Chris' handsomeness
3.
Hmmmm๐ค
Delete1. Voice
ReplyDelete2. Chris seems to be getting all that Saka desires
3. Not really, I appreciate them and if there's any trait or achievement I desire, my desire serves as motivation
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DeleteHonestly, Jealousy in friendship is inevitable. And it doesn't have to be negative. One can simply be like you said rightly jealous of his or her bestie, but the ability to curb it early is important so as not to turn to something more serious.
ReplyDeleteKemi, I love the woman you are becoming. Weldone.
Well said. Thank you for the compliment.
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1.People preferred Chris' voice over Saka's?
ReplyDelete2. Saka became jealous of Chris' voice
3. Yes. He plays better football than me. It does not affect our friendship
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DeleteANSWERS:
ReplyDelete1) People preferred Chris' Name over Saka's
2) Saka became jealous of his Bestie's name.
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